As I sat in the passenger seat of our family car, I found myself reflecting back on the past 15 years or so. Why? I have been teaching my son to drive since he received his learner’s permit in October. Where has the past few years gone? How did he get to be so tall? Maybe he does know more than me? Beside me, now sits this amazing young adult – with a lead foot! While teaching the rules of the road has provided moments of frustration, for both of us, it is the start of certain freedoms in my young son’s life.
First comes the driver’s license, then the voter’s registration and being legally deemed an adult, then, for some, it will soon be off to college. As our children get older and become independent, we cannot lose sight of one important item-they do not become adults until 18. If something were to happen to my son’s father or me, as a minor, he would become a ward of the state. It is easy for us to remember that our children need a guardian when they are much younger, but it may not be as prevalent when they are teenagers and less dependent on us. I think we often forget that even at 16, they are technically minors, regardless of how independent they are and how well they drive.
I am thankful that I have plans in place just in case something unexpected were to happen. My estate plan lists who would become his guardian, someone I trust and have pre-approved (so to speak), avoiding the state and courts deciding such sensitive and important matters. Provisions are also included for him financially, so his dreams of attending college can still be realized. Don’t take the risk of assuming that nothing is going to happen to you. Plan while you are able for all of the things that you are not expecting.
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